Title taken from something my freshman roomate in college, who I don't actually know super well but who's a pretty decent guy, called me recently. I like to think it's accurate.
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
The Stars and Barred
This flag is a hate symbol. It doesn't matter if you argue that it's derived from a Hindu symbol, or that the events of the Holocaust were 70 years ago. This flag stands for something dark, evil, and brutal. Germans, largely, don't claim that it's a part of their heritage. They don't put it on their cars. They don't fly it above their capitols. They are ashamed of that part of their past, as they should be, and swastikas in Germany are generally considered distasteful.
Today is a big day and a day I never thought I'd see. Two of the biggest retailers in America are refusing to sell items which probably make them a large amount of money because they are symbols of hate. That's what the Confederate flag is.
I'm going to get this out of the way now: I'm calling the above flag the Confederate flag. I know it's not the national flag of the Confederate States of America. Everyone who knows me knows that I know that. I'm calling it that anyway for simplicity. Please don't try to engage me in debate about it.
There's something we also need to get out of the way right now: the Confederacy was wrong. It just was. Please don't try to tell me that its members were fighting for state's rights, or resisting some kind of Northern aggression. Do not try to tell me the war was about tariffs or federal power or a way of life or Southern Pride. The Confederacy existed primarily to propagate and expand American slavery. If you disagree with that, that is your right, but you are objectively wrong. This is not just my opinion. I have made it a significant part of my life to study slavery. I know more about it than the majority of people in this country do or ever will. I know what I'm talking about. I have two degrees to prove it. The CSA was founded on slavery. It just was.
Here's something else that needs to be said: slavery was bad. There are still some people who will attempt to downplay or even argue against that. Again, they are objectivity wrong. Slavery was cruel and brutal in most cases. Slaves did not like being enslaved, nor were they better off under slavery than being free either in America or their home nations in Africa. Even a lucky slave who might have had a kind master (and this was not the norm) was still a slave. Slavery is, in essence, the stealing of another's life, and it is wrong. And slaveholders were wrong.
These are the facts. If you disagree, you shouldn't even be reading this, because you either need to go educate yourself on this or are simply stubbornly dedicated to being wrong.
All of that is why this is a big day for America.
As a country, we've hadn't really reached the point where major retailers would be willing to stop selling Confederate paraphernalia before today, because it's just so darn profitable. It's profitable because there is still a very large segment of the country, by no means limited to the South, that thinks the Confederate flag stands for anything other than slavery and racism. Some people have claimed that it's "become" a symbol of the South, rather than a symbol of slavery, but that's not a great argument, because what you're basically doing is defining the South by the rebellion it waged so it could keep oppressing blacks. That's not so great if you're trying to claim that your region of the country is awesome and that you should be proud of it. That's why Germans don't proudly fly the Nazi flag as a symbol of Germany and German heritage - they don't exactly want Germany to be defined by the Holocaust, nor should they.
Some people claim that the Confederate flag stands for states' rights, small government, or independence. That doesn't really work either, though, because, as I've noted, the Confederacy wasn't really fighting for those things. It was fighting for one right in particular, which was the right to own other people, and taking away someone else's rights isn't really a right, much less something you should be literally willing to die for.
When you get right down to it, the Confederate flag is just a really shameful reminder that half of our country entered a life and death struggle to oppress black people.
I'm not saying the Confederate flag should be ignored. I'm not saying it should be swept under the rug. We need to talk about it. We need to acknowledge that it exists. We need to accept that America's greatest shame was slavery and work through everything that means for us today as a country.
What I am saying is that no one should be proudly waving the Stars and Bars.
I'm all for free speech and I would never support a law to ban the Confederate Flag. But just because you can do something, doesn't mean you should. If you are going around displaying the Confederate flag as a symbol of pride you either do not know what it symbolizes or you do and you don't care.
There's something else too, that many Americans aren't considering. There's a lot of talk about what that flag means to Southerners, and what its absence would mean to them, but in that context, "Southerners" implicitly means "white Southerners." That flag already gives me the creeps. I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like if I was descended from slaves. Hell, even if I wasn't, the use of that flag by racists throughout American history might make me feel really really uncomfortable upon seeing it if I was a black American, whether my ancestors were slaves or not.
I say "might" because I don't want to fall into the trap of thinking that all blacks (or whites, Asians, Hispanics etc.) must have the same opinion on literally anything. Still, one has to imagine that arguments that claim that that flag is ok can't be shared by a rather large proportion of Southerners, black or white.
And that's a good thing.
No one should be comfortable waving the Confederate flag around outside of a historical context, much like no one should be comfortable using the word nigger outside of a historical context. It's just not ok. And finally, after hundreds of years, we, as a country, are getting around to admitting that.
Symbols may be what people make them, but in some cases, they've represented something so horrific that it becomes impossible to use them without invoking that thing. The Confederate flag was carried by men who were fighting to preserve the very worst America ever had to offer, for an institution that brutalized men and women, tore their families apart, tortured them mentally and physically, and killed them by the thousands. That these men and women were able to survive, let alone thrive, under such a system, that they were able to resist in any way and make lives for themselves is not only impressive, it is heroic. Those are the men and women we should be respecting and looking to as examples of American heroes, not those who carried the Stars and Bars and certainly not those who founded the country it represented.
The Confederate flag is a symbol of a dark past whose legacy we have not yet come to terms with fully. We have not yet reached total equality, and it may be hundreds of years yet until we do, if we do. That is the legacy of the Stars and Bars. That is the direct result of the efforts of those who carried it. We can't fix that overnight, but we can help to try to fix it by refusing to carry that flag ourselves.
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